INA MASU MATSALAR SAURIN KAWOWA A LOKACIN JIMA'I ???

INA MASU MATSALAR SAURIN KAWOWA A
LOKACIN JIMA'I ???
To ku karanta wannan.
Maigida bai kamata kafara tunanin biyan buqatarka
ba kafin ta iyalinka.
Kasani wannan iyalinka ce, biya mata buqata wajibi
ne a kanka, ba wace ka daukoce domin zina ba.
Wannan tunanin zaisa nan da nan kayi saurin
kawowa kafin ita.
Galibi wannan tafi faruwa ga auren fari wajen maza,
tareda rashin samun wannan ilimin, to wannan
damuwar takan taru a zuciyar matarka har ya
zamana bata iya kawowa, sai tayi ta haihuwa ba
tare dajin dadin saduwar ba.
Hakanan dadewa ba a sadu ba yakan janyo
wannan matsalar ta saurin kawowa.
Hanyoyin magance wannan babbar matsala su ne
kamar haka:-
1) Kayi qoqarin shafa gabanka in kaji zaka kawo
sai ka bari, ka sakeyi har kamar uku a kwana uku
cikin mako guda.
2) Kanemi tsawaita lokacin kawowar, in kaji kafara
sama sai kazare sai hankalinka ya kwanta saika
mayar, wannan yana da kyau sosai.
3) Idan sha'awarka tafara sama sai kazaro ka
wanke da ruwan sanyi, kashare da tsumman da
yasha ruwan sanyi, sannan ka mayar. (Ban da mai
sanyin qanqara yakan cutar).
4) Idan iyalinka ce aqasa, tabbas akwai saurin
kawowa da wuri saboda saurin zuwan jini gabanka,
amma in itace a sama bazaka sami wannan qarfin
ba (amma shima da 'yar matsala kamar yadda Ibn
Qayyim ya fadi).
5) Amfani da condom albashi a dan huda gaban
yadda ruwanka zai fita, kana iya hada biyu in har
kana jin susarta.
6) Idan sha'awarka tafara motsawa saika zarota,
matarka tadora babban yatsarta a bisa kan
ta6aryarka manuniyarta a qasa saita matse da dan
qarfi ta ci gaba da matsewa, zaka danji zafi, nan
take sha'awar za ta kintse, dan anjima kadan saika
mayar, to amma fa kasani duk bayanan kar kabari
sai sha'awarka tagama haduwa, a wannan lokacin
ba wani abu da zai iya taimakonka, wadannan
hanyoyi sukan taimaka da kashi 95/100, sai yin
amfani da maganin dagawar sha'awa wato (Prozac)
likitoci sun sanshi, amma magungunan da ake
yawan sayarwar nan gaskiya suna rage jin dadi.
Idan kai mai saurin kawowa ne, kuma daka kawo
gabanka zai kwanta (sabo da irinka kenan), to kada
kasauka, kaci gaba da qoqari, wannan yauqin ba
zai jima ba zai daskare, hakan zai taimake ka
kasake miqewa ko kuwa ita uwargidan ta sami
abin da take buqata.
KA NISANCI SON KAWOWA A ZUCIYARKA YIN
HAKAN ZAI TAIMAKA SOSAI.
Kuyi hakury kada kuga na zafafa harkar addini
saida gyara, wadansunku suna fama da wannan
matsalar amma kunya takan hanasu.
Allah kayi mana maganin abinda yafi Qarfinmu.